Excellent message!!Could not refrain myself from posting it here:
‘Why do we shout in anger?’ A saint asked his disciples, ‘Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’
His disciples thought for a while, one of them said, ‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’
‘But, why do you shout when the other person is just next to you?’ asked the saint. ‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint. Finally he explained, ‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.’
Then the saint asked, ‘What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small…’
The saint continued, ‘When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.
‘MORAL’ said the saint: ‘When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return!’
Monday, February 7, 2011
Eight Invaluable Gifts
The Gift of Listening:
But you must really listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.
The Gift of Affection:
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and hand-holds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.
The Gift of Laughter:
Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, "1 love to laugh with you."
The Gift of a Written Note:
A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.
The Gift of a Compliment:
A simple and sincere, "You look great in red," "You did a super job" or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone’s day.
The Gift of a Favor:
Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.
The Gift of Solitude:
There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.
The Gift of a Cheerful Disposition:
The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really it’s not that hard to say, Hello or Thank You.
Courtesy:Pravs world
But you must really listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.
The Gift of Affection:
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and hand-holds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.
The Gift of Laughter:
Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, "1 love to laugh with you."
The Gift of a Written Note:
A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.
The Gift of a Compliment:
A simple and sincere, "You look great in red," "You did a super job" or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone’s day.
The Gift of a Favor:
Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.
The Gift of Solitude:
There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.
The Gift of a Cheerful Disposition:
The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really it’s not that hard to say, Hello or Thank You.
Courtesy:Pravs world
Friday, February 4, 2011
Sri-Indu-8
Chicago velle roju raane ochindi Indu ki.amma,nanna la tho kalipi oka 20 mandi send off ivvalani Indu tho patu prayanam ayyaru airport ki.aaru nelalu intlo vallani chudakunda undali..aa project inka extend kooda avvachu..ee lopu ee thokkalo pelli gola okati..aa Kishore ento artham kaadu..mana vallemo aa abbai ne cheseskomani.. ee lopu aa Kishore ki Indu valla nanna phone..
'Babu ammayi ikkada bayalderuthondi kastha jagrtahaga chusthu undandi okkathe kada bla bla' antu edo matladesthunnaru.
anni okesari ochayentra bhagavanthuda antu evevo alochanallo padi andarki sarigga bye kooda cheppalekapoye mothaniki flite ekkindi..
ee deergha alochanallo padi asalu desalu datesthunna ani marchipoye lope Chicago airport ochestondi antu announcement.Indu flites digi thanani receive cheskodaniki office vallu pampina cab kosam wait chesthu undagane Kishore shock ichadu akkada prathyaksham ayyi.
'Hello Indu,welcome Dear!!'
'Hey Kishore,meeru ikkada??office cab osthundi kada naaku, mimmalni rammani nanna cheppara?' antu inkaa questions adigeyabothonte
'ledu Chanti,nuvvu start ayyav ani chepparu,okka danive unnav kada nenu osthe neeku konchem baguntundi ani vachanu..ninnu mee guest house lo drop chesi nenu return autha if you dont mind'
migitha anni emo kani aa 'Chanti' ani pilichetappatiki mana Indu flat!!chala daggara manishi pilichinattu anipinchindi.chala affectionate ga anipinchindi.inka dani gurinche feel authonte ee lopu Kishore
'Madam edina problem aa?nenu adigina daniki reply ledu?nannu rammantava vadda?'
'Sorry Kishore!sarigga vinipinchukoledu..yeah free aithe randi meeru kooda..naku emee problem ledu' ani anesindi.
'ohkay!sarey pada aithe adigo ade mee cab anukunta'
antu iddaru cab ekki guest house ki start ayyaru.darilo oka Indian super market unte akkada aagi Kishore Indu ki adi chupinchi thanaki kavalsinavi anni koni..daily avsaram ayye info antha chepthunnadu.ee lope aa abbayi friend oka ammayi daggarlo unte aa ammayi ki call chesi veellu velle time ki aa ammai ni koda guest house ki pilipinchadu..
aa caring antha Indu ki chala nachindi 'chala baga behave chesthunnadu ee abbayi..ekkada over ga ledu.Ofcourse as a friend naku help chesthu undachu,lekapothe ammayi okathe undi ane concern tho ayi undachu lekapothe
situation favorable ga marchukundam ani ayina ayi undavachu.ayina husband lo kavalsinavi best friend lo unde features ee kada!life long ilanti caring ee kada kavali!ayina ammayi chala independent ga undali ani expect chese abbai inthalla chinna pilla ki help cheshtunnattu chesthunnade!!'antu US lo modati meeting lo ne justify cheseyadam modalu
pettesindi..ammayi la mansthatvam..:)
veellu guest house ki andetappatiki Kishore friend veella kosam wait chesthu undi.
'She is Sam..sameera.. and sam she is Indu.nenu cheppanu kada naa friend vasthondi ani' antu introduction session start chesadu Kishore.
'Friend antaventi Kishore thanu accept chesthe fiancee authundi ani cheppu'antu oka chilipi navvu navvindi aa Sam
Indu moham lo chiru kopam chusina Kishore matram chala tadabaddadu.emi cheppalo artham kaka thana expressions thone inka aapu ani sam ki saiga chesadu.aa expression ni catch chesinattu Sam
'Hey Indu nenu pakka lane lo ne untanu.elanti help kavalanna nenu unna.neku ok anukunte you can keep visiting ma place' antu thana contact details ichindi.
andaru kalisi thana guest house lo ki vellaru..akkada mugguru kalisi kasepu sarada khaburlu cheppukuntu undagane Kishore
'Hey Indu nuvvu fresh ayipo.memu ilane ninnu vayisthu untamu..elagu ippudu 8 authondi kada.bayatiki velli andaram kalisi dinner cheseddam..nenu atu nundi return ayipothanu.u guys can head back'
sarey ani Indu fresh ayyi vachetappatiki Sam mugguriki coffee prepare chesi pettindi.Mugguru adi thagi bayatiki velthomte Indu room contact number note chesukunnadu Kishore.veellu chicago local gallu ayipoyinattu unnaru.akkada kooda ekkado lopala oka Indian restaurant ki theesuku vellaru..Indian peru chudagane Indu pranam lechi vachi thanaki theliyakundane
'Thanks Kishore indian restaurant ki theesuku vachinanduku..nene mimmalni adugudam anukuntunna.inka sandwitch le gathi anukunna thanks a lot!' anesindi
'ha ha ha' antu villain navvu navvi 'I know.anduke ikkadiki theesuku vacha le' edo mind reader la pose ichadu.
mugguru dinner chesaka kasepu walk antu pakkane malls lo thirigaru.inka thanaki time ayipoyindi ani Kishore 'start authanu,morning call chestha le Indu' ani bayalderipoyadu.
aa ababyi ila vellado ledo ee Sam maa friend ila maa friend alaa ani boasting modalu pettindi..matter antha thelusu kada mari.
sarey iddaru guest house ki vachi kasepu malli suthi kottukunnaru..ratri 12 ayyaka appudu Sam thirigi room ki vellindi.Indu baga alisipoyi,itte nidrapoyindi..
morning 6 avvagane enduko melukuva vachi Kishore call chesthademo ane thought modalu pettindi.7:30 ayina inka call raade.thananthata thanu cheyalante kastha swabhimanam..ila anukune lope office nundi phone, office ravadaniki arrangements kosam.office ki ready authu kooda Kishore phone kosam waiting ee mana Indu!!Mana Indu ki kooda allaergy start ayindi antara?
'Babu ammayi ikkada bayalderuthondi kastha jagrtahaga chusthu undandi okkathe kada bla bla' antu edo matladesthunnaru.
anni okesari ochayentra bhagavanthuda antu evevo alochanallo padi andarki sarigga bye kooda cheppalekapoye mothaniki flite ekkindi..
ee deergha alochanallo padi asalu desalu datesthunna ani marchipoye lope Chicago airport ochestondi antu announcement.Indu flites digi thanani receive cheskodaniki office vallu pampina cab kosam wait chesthu undagane Kishore shock ichadu akkada prathyaksham ayyi.
'Hello Indu,welcome Dear!!'
'Hey Kishore,meeru ikkada??office cab osthundi kada naaku, mimmalni rammani nanna cheppara?' antu inkaa questions adigeyabothonte
'ledu Chanti,nuvvu start ayyav ani chepparu,okka danive unnav kada nenu osthe neeku konchem baguntundi ani vachanu..ninnu mee guest house lo drop chesi nenu return autha if you dont mind'
migitha anni emo kani aa 'Chanti' ani pilichetappatiki mana Indu flat!!chala daggara manishi pilichinattu anipinchindi.chala affectionate ga anipinchindi.inka dani gurinche feel authonte ee lopu Kishore
'Madam edina problem aa?nenu adigina daniki reply ledu?nannu rammantava vadda?'
'Sorry Kishore!sarigga vinipinchukoledu..yeah free aithe randi meeru kooda..naku emee problem ledu' ani anesindi.
'ohkay!sarey pada aithe adigo ade mee cab anukunta'
antu iddaru cab ekki guest house ki start ayyaru.darilo oka Indian super market unte akkada aagi Kishore Indu ki adi chupinchi thanaki kavalsinavi anni koni..daily avsaram ayye info antha chepthunnadu.ee lope aa abbayi friend oka ammayi daggarlo unte aa ammayi ki call chesi veellu velle time ki aa ammai ni koda guest house ki pilipinchadu..
aa caring antha Indu ki chala nachindi 'chala baga behave chesthunnadu ee abbayi..ekkada over ga ledu.Ofcourse as a friend naku help chesthu undachu,lekapothe ammayi okathe undi ane concern tho ayi undachu lekapothe
situation favorable ga marchukundam ani ayina ayi undavachu.ayina husband lo kavalsinavi best friend lo unde features ee kada!life long ilanti caring ee kada kavali!ayina ammayi chala independent ga undali ani expect chese abbai inthalla chinna pilla ki help cheshtunnattu chesthunnade!!'antu US lo modati meeting lo ne justify cheseyadam modalu
pettesindi..ammayi la mansthatvam..:)
veellu guest house ki andetappatiki Kishore friend veella kosam wait chesthu undi.
'She is Sam..sameera.. and sam she is Indu.nenu cheppanu kada naa friend vasthondi ani' antu introduction session start chesadu Kishore.
'Friend antaventi Kishore thanu accept chesthe fiancee authundi ani cheppu'antu oka chilipi navvu navvindi aa Sam
Indu moham lo chiru kopam chusina Kishore matram chala tadabaddadu.emi cheppalo artham kaka thana expressions thone inka aapu ani sam ki saiga chesadu.aa expression ni catch chesinattu Sam
'Hey Indu nenu pakka lane lo ne untanu.elanti help kavalanna nenu unna.neku ok anukunte you can keep visiting ma place' antu thana contact details ichindi.
andaru kalisi thana guest house lo ki vellaru..akkada mugguru kalisi kasepu sarada khaburlu cheppukuntu undagane Kishore
'Hey Indu nuvvu fresh ayipo.memu ilane ninnu vayisthu untamu..elagu ippudu 8 authondi kada.bayatiki velli andaram kalisi dinner cheseddam..nenu atu nundi return ayipothanu.u guys can head back'
sarey ani Indu fresh ayyi vachetappatiki Sam mugguriki coffee prepare chesi pettindi.Mugguru adi thagi bayatiki velthomte Indu room contact number note chesukunnadu Kishore.veellu chicago local gallu ayipoyinattu unnaru.akkada kooda ekkado lopala oka Indian restaurant ki theesuku vellaru..Indian peru chudagane Indu pranam lechi vachi thanaki theliyakundane
'Thanks Kishore indian restaurant ki theesuku vachinanduku..nene mimmalni adugudam anukuntunna.inka sandwitch le gathi anukunna thanks a lot!' anesindi
'ha ha ha' antu villain navvu navvi 'I know.anduke ikkadiki theesuku vacha le' edo mind reader la pose ichadu.
mugguru dinner chesaka kasepu walk antu pakkane malls lo thirigaru.inka thanaki time ayipoyindi ani Kishore 'start authanu,morning call chestha le Indu' ani bayalderipoyadu.
aa ababyi ila vellado ledo ee Sam maa friend ila maa friend alaa ani boasting modalu pettindi..matter antha thelusu kada mari.
sarey iddaru guest house ki vachi kasepu malli suthi kottukunnaru..ratri 12 ayyaka appudu Sam thirigi room ki vellindi.Indu baga alisipoyi,itte nidrapoyindi..
morning 6 avvagane enduko melukuva vachi Kishore call chesthademo ane thought modalu pettindi.7:30 ayina inka call raade.thananthata thanu cheyalante kastha swabhimanam..ila anukune lope office nundi phone, office ravadaniki arrangements kosam.office ki ready authu kooda Kishore phone kosam waiting ee mana Indu!!Mana Indu ki kooda allaergy start ayindi antara?
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